Our week

What a week! Doug and I had our first dinner ALONE since August 2006! A date night which should be done at least once a week, we never do! Well that is all going to change because we had way too much fun. Doug being the gem he is always tries to get me to go out, but for whatever reason we just don't. We went to a little Italian place down the road...food was gross company was great! So not only was it a fantastic time, but it revived me! I guess I just got lost along the way and started putting the kids first. I am sure this happens to everybody,you get in a rut new baby same old same old and I'm sure that is a lot of cause for divorce. Well I will try to not let that happen again. I love him so much and am so thankful for him. He is just a blessing everyday. I am so thankful God blessed me with him. He is always there to encourage, and not only be my husband but my friend. Thank you Lord truly for Doug. He is wrapping up his 8th golf season and was very busy this week. When is he not busy? God blessed me with a husband who is a faithful, diligent worker. I have been at home with the kids and really lonely. I could never do this job on my own. I take for granted how great it is to see his green truck pull in at 3:30 and Blase running out to greet him. He will scoop him up and I am usually done for the day! There is nothing better than to look out the window and see Doug playing in the sandbox with Blase. Holding Harrison while watering my flowers,and watching Blase ride his bike make my heart melt. I am so thankful for our special time together and Doug I know I don't say it enough, but I love you and am so encouraged everyday by you. You are amazing and I can't wait for our next date night..which will not be in another 12 months! I was thinking Monday. So with all of our alone time this week Base and I decided to make a spider cake. We have a Better Homes and Gardens Halloween book and I let Blase choose the cake. It was really a fun thing for us to do. Now the cake did not turn out to be like the magazine...I never said I was like Billie Stewart(the other Martha, or perhaps better than.) It was special to do something alone with Blase. He is going to choose another project today. We also decorated our yard which was fun. I like the more Harvesty decorations, but I do put up some other things. I found the scarecrow bows at Meijer and I put them on all my lights out front. We are only missing hay bales, pumpkins, and corn which we will get this weekend. We are supposed to go to Amon orchards. The Lord is so faithful to me because I am struggling this week with not being by family and just with mundane everyday life. I know not being able to be close to family is not everything, but to me it is. God has been showing me that he is near and that although this is a tough season he is my refuge and with me every step of the way. In the midst of constant correction, anger ,bitterness, sorrow joy love and laughter, he has always been faithful. I love all of you so much and hope you have a great weekend! If there are any spelling errors sorry. I am holding Harrison hunting and pecking and just being thankful for EVERDAY LIFE! I forgot to tell the strry of Blase and Harrison laughing. I was preparing dinner and I hear Blase laughing and Harrison squeling in delight. I look over and ask'"What is so Funny?" Blase says," Harrison is biting me momma and I like it!" "Let me see," and I am so glad he did! They were having a grand ol' time with Harrison sucking Blase's nose! IT was digustingly funny and I laughed so hard.

Today was quite a day! I went to school to have lunch with Blase and that was an experience. I have stayed away for three weeks and he was doing very well. They like parents to volunteer and help out so I thought today would be a great time to start volunteering, I was wrong. He saw me and got extremely goofy! All the rules flew out the window! It was a very HUMBLING experience. By the end of the recess he had me wanting to crawl under a rock! His teacher was so gracious and had a talk with him and I. I left feeling better and thankful for a teacher who is loving and understanding. God blessed us with being able to send him to school and I am so thankful. It is doing a world of good for him and I. Today was a good lesson in pride and I am thankful for little reminders and people in my life to bring me back to truth! Love and Hugs to you all! jess

I almost forgot a picture of aunt jane, dave, jon and mom! Missy Sytek was there too.

Happy first birthday Cocoa! We are so thankful you sweet boy. You are a beautiful boy and we are so blessed to be able to celebrate with you. You are very special to us and we hope your birthday party was a blast. A great time was had by all. Everyone enjoyed themselves. Dad and Beth had to leave early because they are still sick! Two weeks of sinus/bronchitis...yuck and we are praying for you both. Aunt Jane was excited because she now has wheels! It is a really nice car. I think it is called a Kia Spectra..very nice. Mom and Jon were there with Eunice, she is a true gift from God. She is precious and we adore her. We are so thankful her, and glad her and mom are such good friends. The party was a blast and I hope you all enjoy the pics. Thank you all for commenting on my blog..I miss you all dearly and can't wait to see you.

New Do

So today I got my hair done....highlights and all. Not very often do I get to do that anymore. I usually use a box. It felt great and Harrison slept the whole time. Jenny Sides came and that was so fun to see her. She has all her hair cut off and it looks great. I can not figure out how to set this thing up so I can put words by the right pictures. HELP! This has been a long week. Harrison has a cold or something goin on and Blase and my allergies are off the charts. The weather has been beautiful though. Blase and I saw a rainbow yesterday morning and he was so excited. He likes to hear the story of Noah and God's promise. Doug, my great love brought me flowers for no reason...I don't deserve them and he is precious.

Thank You Aunt Sylvia

I received a package today from my Aunt Sylvia which was a great surprise! She sent some clothing for Harrison and a special gift for me too. I was tickled to get a package from her. It made my day. Aunt Sylvia, thank you for blessing my family and especially me. Your letter made me cry. I wish we lived closer, but for now we'll communicate through this. I love you Aunt Syl and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

I tried to take a picture of my new business card,but it didn't turn out. For those of you who don't already know I started a photography business...card making too. It is called J.Gap Originals. Great name huh? Hopefully I will get some business. I really enjoy making people happy with cards. Just like my grammy Marion. I will never be as good,or dedicated as she is, but I will try. My slogan is,"Take a moment and capture the memory. " I also have on the back,"using your individuality to customize a photo/card perfect for you. I am really excited about this new venture. Harrison is getting so chubby! I can't believe how much he eats. Blase was never a big eater, and he always stayed thin. Blase had his first full week of school and loved it...THANK YOU GOD! I enjoyed my time with Harrison too. Doug is still busy with the golf course, getting ready to wrap up his 8th season at Interlochen Golf Club...where does the time go? I am so ready for winter and some more time with Doug. I think he is ready too. This is the first year I am actually ready for snow. Well I should go for now it's getting late and I am ready for bed. Love to you all and thanks for reading.